Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Lady in the dressing room told me not to get shorts...

Well, not to get those shorts anyways.

I will start by saying I'm plus-size, I've lost a lot of weight recently and I feel great BUT I'm still big. No big deal, working on it. I decided to get some new summer stuff today. I saw a pair of short acid jeans shorts that I liked, and I told myself "I could totally pull that off now." I don't know, I just felt confident enough to. So I grab my size and I go try it along with a few t-shirts.

I put it on and I really like them but I want to see what they look like in those fancy 3 sided mirrors, so I go out and there is this lady that looks at me with a raised eyebrow look. Already my self confidence goes down, you know the "What am I thinking? this probably looks like crap on me!" Anyways, I walk to the mirror and I kinda still like them and they look really nice with the black top I got. Then the lady starts talking and says "I don't think you should get them sweety."

I think my heart stopped. I turned around and looked at her and said "sorry?" She said "I think those are too big on you. You have way over two inches on each side of your waist and I think they aren't meant to be that long. My daughter tried a similar pair, they're usually shorter, maybe try the smaller size." I felt like crying. I've practically NEVER been told to get a smaller size. She was also such a sweetheart about it. I tried the smaller size and she was right, totally different style and they did look better!

I am pretty sure she just made my day! Big hugs to all sweet ladies out there who help other ladies pick clothes that look good and fit them well.

Note: I've posted this story to Reddit, so you might have read it already, it's all good :) Did I mention how proud I am to lose weight? Really proud thank you!!!


Wednesday, June 4, 2014

Basic Questions and Basic answers

When Stephen and mention we are doing the Keto diet, we often get asked the same questions. Here is a quick “questions and answers” that might answer some of your questions and concerns.

Q: What exactly does your diet consist of? What can you eat and what can’t you?

A: It’s a low carbohydrates diet. So anything that has a lot of carbohydrates we avoid. Our diet consists of about 70% fat, 15% proteins and 5% fat. I personally take about 1300 calories a day but it varies depending on how hungry or active I am, I don’t really count calories unless I am not losing any weight. I am also staying under 20g of carbohydrates a day. If you’d like to see what your calories and carbohydrates consumption should be based on your height, weight and goals, please visit this website
Now, what do we eat? A simply rule is that meats, fat and green veggies are okay to eat. Beginners often want a list of what is OK and what is not. It’s really not that easy… Per example, meats are okay but Italian sausages can have up to 4 carbohydrates per sausage (which is a lot). So you really have to check the nutrition in all that you eat. To see how many carbohydrates you have in some food, look at the nutrition information and next to carbohydrates you’ll see how many carbohydrates per portions (mentioned in the package) it has. Always subtract the proteins from the total amount of carbohydrates. 
Sometimes there aren't any nutritional facts on the package. In that case you can use My Fitness Pall or Google. Just enter the name of what you’re looking for and you should have the charts for it.

Q: Aren’t you worried about eating “too much fat?” Isn't that unhealthy?

If you eat the right types of fat, it is not unhealthy. I could elaborate on this but really, this link explains it perfectly. Give it a read, even if you aren't on Keto. It’s really interesting.

Q: Does Keto limit you when you go out?

Not really no, if we want to go for a nice supper we just go. We've been out with friends and family while on Keto. It’s not really that difficult to find what to eat in restaurants. In a pizza place, eat the top of the pizza, just no crust… In a fancy restaurant, steak and veggies… The only thing that really changed is how often we actually want to go out. I mean it’s we are much less likely to go to McDonald’s when we will pay for a full burger but just have the patty and the cheese… So our fast food eating has been dramatically going down but we still eat out on some occasions.

Q: Are there risks to follow the Keto diet? Who should be on Keto and who shouldn't be?

I guess the risks would be to lose weight ha… No seriously, you should ask your doctor about going on a Low carbohydrates, high fat diet. If your doctor is 100% closed to the idea I’d get a second opinion but please consult especially if you already have any type of physical complication. I know Keto can be dangerous during pregnancy and nursing… I’m not pregnant and my kids have been breastfed for a really long time. So, if my supply did drop, it really wouldn't matter much to me or to them.

Q: Does it really work?

So far I've lost 40lbs and Stephen probably lost around the same… It makes a huge difference. If you’re morbidly obese or obese you’ll lose weight very fast. If you’re looking to lose 10lbs but are already at a healthy weight, you might take a little longer to get there. However, I've heard that Keto defines changes your body in general (in a good way). So 200lbs or 10lbs it’s all good.

Q: Do you have to exercise?

I don’t exercise except for cleaning and walking. I still lose weight but I’m sure I could lose more from exercising besides, exercise is never a bad idea…

Q: Do your kids follow your diet?

Nooooo, children need to gain weight, not lose any. They also don’t need to diet… It’s fairly easy to adapt our diet to theirs. We usually just cook rice, pasta or couscous or add bread to our meals and give it to the kids.

Q: What have been the real benefits?

Except for losing weight, I have much more energy, I feel better, healthier… I am pretty happy with the changes my body is overcoming. My skin also looks healthier, much less pimples throughout my cycle… Everything is good really.

Q: What food that you can’t eat do you miss?

Fries. Like really greasy yummy salty fries. I also miss bread when I pass by a bakery and smell fresh bread. Bacon takes care of those cravings though.

Q: Do you plan on doing this diet forever? You’ll gain all the weight back…

We always say we plan on being on Keto until we reach our weight goals. Then we’ll see. As long as we are healthy while on Keto, I don’t see a need to stop unless we want to. Like any diet, there always IS a chance that you gain all or some of the weight back. Studies seem to agree that losing weight at a regular rate and changing bad habits could contribute to keeping the weight off. So far, we've made great changes in our dietary lives and we've been slowly losing weight, not too fast, not too slow… So anyways, I’m not saying it’s impossible for us to regain some weight, but it’s a risk with any diet… Hell it’s a risk as soon as you eat.

Q: Does being on Keto cost more grocery wise?

Actually yes. We've noticed an increase of 200$ per month extra on groceries. However, our fast food prices went down 100$. So let’s say it costs us an extra 100$ a month but we eat much better. We weren't sure it was going to cost us more at first but the truth is that a pack of 30 chicken nuggets for 10$ gives us at least 3 meals while 2 steaks for 10$ makes one meal. We aren't complaining though, we look for specials and deal with the price difference.

Q: How would you transit form Keto to a regular diet?

I have no idea. Probably following the Atkins diet? Incorporating a few more carbohydrates every day. I don’t believe I’ll ever feel the same love I've once felt about carbohydrates, but I do want to eventually be able to have some bread, some couscous… A bit of everything.


I hope this answers some questions. I’m by no means a health professional and I would highly suggest consulting your doctor before starting Keto but it works for us and we love this new lifestyle. Don’t hesitate to ask any more questions. 


Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Introduction to Keto

I’m Carlinha, I’m 24 years old and I've been overweight probably all my life. For the longest time ever I was OK with that. I felt that it wasn't a big deal and that I could always lose weight if I felt like it. Yeah, I don’t know what I was thinking. Truth is it’s really hard to lose weight, I can’t believe I allowed myself to get this big. I’m currently making big changes in my life to no longer be overweight and life a healthier life.

My weight has been fluctuating between 220lbs-275lbs for the last 10 years. It’s been quite the challenge. I had two back to back pregnancies which caused a lot of weight gain and weight loss and being a mom in general caused me to gain 10lbs a month and lose 8lbs the next month. You get the idea, a really bumpy roller coaster. 5 months ago I decided that I had enough. I found myself having no energy and no patience to play with the children. It’s not normal, being so young and having no energy, what the hell? My husband too had been putting on quite some weight. When we met he was around 140lbs and he was over 200lbs by the time we decided to start out weight loss journey.  Our goal was simple: no longer be fat.

We did some research and agreed to try out the Keto “diet.” I put diet in brackets because we really don’t feel like it’s a diet. It’s not restricting and not hard to follow. It just sort of becomes a lifestyle. So we read a lot about Low Carb diets and decided to give it a go. We went at it cold turkey and sort of never looked back. At first, since then we've lost about 5-7lbs a month. It’s going great, and we are very happy.

The main reason why I started this blog is to share our experience with others. I know many people who are interested in low carb, high fat diets but who are hesitant to start them. I can understand that fear and I want to help you and encourage you to look over it and start losing weight. I also want to keep a log of our progress because it’s for sure going to be interesting to read it after another 5 months of Keto or a year… I can’t wait really!


That being said, I’m planning on publishing progress statistics, pictures, recipes, accomplishments, disappointment, and so much more. Feel free to follow us through this life changing experience!